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The 21st Century Divorce
A break up doesn't have to mean that your world is ending. Sure, sometimes it feels as if everything you worked for is gone and that the beliefs you held sacred have failed you. You might challenge your belief in God, deny your faith in true love, shake your fist fate. However, also a big feeling upheaval an old proverb goes, "You can not let some omelet without breaking eggs."
Sometimes a divorce signifies the conclusion of the existing world. When one goes through a divorce there are numerous things which change. For women it's a name change and for both parties custody of children and pets, division of property and mutually purchased items as well as obtaining separate residences. Every time you need to make a choice it might seem like the end of the world. But think for a moment about the hard labor that brought you into this world: it was painful, long, agonizing and took all the effort both you and your mother had. And in the end you become two separate beings instead of one. Ending a marriage is almost the same: it could be long, hurting,agonizing, and snatch the efforts from you and your partner as well. After all there are two of you in the marriage but a split will make you individuals again.
For people whose marriages are far from what they hoped, divorce brings the opportunity to regroup, learn from previous mistakes, and assimilate new information. Though the steps you are taking now to become a single person are difficult and often painful, keep walking. On the other side of this adventure is a new you, with new hopes, a more realistic and experienced viewpoint and a better grasp of self and the world. Scary is it ? Sure it's true. But as M. Scott Peck, the groundbreaking interpersonal psychologist says, "Going into the unknown is invariably frightening, but you learn what is significantly new only through adventure." Since life is an adventure you have to go through some trial and error in the process. Consider this break up a test you must pass in your own persona Hero's journey.
Now what about the proverbial baggage? Common perceptions of divorces include such images as people stuck in cyclic patterns who continuously replay the same hurtful scenarios over and over again, or people who take their hurt and anger from a previous partner out on their current partner. Certainly there is a grain of truth in these stereotypes.
But why wouldn't there be a grain of truth? Now that you have gone through these times, you will have tools and new approaches to relationships. Every bump along the road and painful situation can be a tool for avoiding future negative situations.
Be wary of excessively using this new information! The key to keeping yourself from becoming the epitome of the baggage stereotype is to use objectivity and cognitive compassion with the new insight. The painful experiences associated with your divorce will trigger you to apply those insights needlessly and assume that a current lover's motivation for behavior is the same as your ex's motivation. Be on your guard as it can be false.
Learning to judge as you perceive them to be a great lesson to take from a separation or end of a marriage in certain situations. Therefore, it is this concept of grief and separation are not necessarily the same conclusion. Complete this book in your life, after that you can switch to the new one.
As the poet Anais Nin said, "And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom." Have a Happy blooming!
If you want more information, you can learn about my experience as an good divorce lawyer in Austin Texas. You can also get a free copy of our Free Austin TX Divorce Guide Audio CD at TruslerLegal.com. If you haven't found the information you need, you can see our questions about divorce in Austin Texas.
Tim Tebow's Pastor: God Is Saving the Broncos (TMZ)
Filed under: Tim Tebow, TMZ Sports, Exclusive
**Broncos **QB **Tim Tebow** is winning games because of God, pure and simple
... this according to one of Tim's Colorado pastors.
Pastor Wayne Hanson -- who runs Summit Church in Castle Rock, CO where Tim's
dad often speaks -- tells TMZ God is actively intervening in **Denver
Broncos** football games ... and aiding Tim on the field because of his strong
faith.
Hanson tells us, "It's not luck. Luck isn't winning 6 games in a row. It's
favor. God's favor."
Pastor Hanson adds, "God has blessed his hard work."
We asked Hanson if Tebow would be winning games if he wasn't such a strong
believer -- and the pastor replied, "No, of course not."
So far, it's the only plausible explanation for this insane Broncos winning
streak.
TMZ
Tim Tebow's Pastor: God Is Saving the Broncos
Oh My God Contest #1,Contest will be over February 13, 2012,good luck
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